Where Psychology Meets God

Recently I've been doing a lot of soul searching. Quite the uncomfortable place to be to be honest. Seeing things in yourself you abhor or hate in others. Being mi, my instant reaction is to judge myself cause that's what I do others. So I become a 'bad' person and not a 'good person' anymore. Why humans have to be either bad or good, versus human, is something I'm trying to grasp too. Being judgmental is what I don't like. I am of others and self. So i hold people to a standard I deem is the best (mostly based on my religious and cultural beliefs). And when they fail, I judge. But then I know that is bad and so I judge myself for doing that. And I think others see mi the same way. A vicious circle. Where I get off thinking I can judge others is beyond mi. 

But I guess psychology meets God here. You identify the problem psychologically, then you hand it over to God to help you solve. At least this is what I'm going to do. Cause I can't think of how else to change. 

For now, I have to keep reminding myself I am not a bad person. Cause that's the hardest part. Oh and not care what others think.