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10 Jan 2017

The New Rules for Love, Sex and Dating: Chapter 1

Stumbled upon this book by pastor Andy Stanley. More like saw it in my friend's bag and took it from her. Turns out to be more of an interesting read than I expected. Not that I was expecting it to be particularly boring either.
I've decided to do a chapter by chapter summary, so over the next few days, LSD (cause the name is too long) updates it shall be.

Enjoy.

Chapter 1: The right person myth
* The assumption - 'the is a right person for you and once you find your right person, everything will be alright.' There maybe a right person for you, but that doesn't mean finding them makes all things alright.
* Chemistry and attraction are important in a relationship. Chemistry requires time, it feels right doesn't always = it is right.
* You are sexually compatible with far more people than you are relationally compatible with. Sexual compatibility is not the test for relational compatibility. That should be the other way round. Sex can inhibit relational development, as it coulda your judgment. It is super glue. Don't add it unless you want two things permanent.
* You will be sexually compatible (SC) with the right person. SC doesn't make a person right though.

Chapter 2: Commitment is overrated.

.... to be continued ....

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